Update #1 by David at 12:16 pm on Wed 3/11/2026 If you'd kindly pray with me for a softened heart -- things were better but we’ve hit some nasty bumps — I knew it would be a few months (3 - 6) to get things in order, but I was counting on her attending home group and church with me like she promised — we need to come to some agreements about taking money without asking from my accounts… It’s NOT about the money but keeping the commandments of God, 1 Cor 7:19... Also, told you the bad, I'll tell you the good -- I'm generous and she doesn't need to "take" anything -- God's supplied our needs and she has "maintenance" that would make most women here very envious of her...
There's a 12 hrs difference from where banking is centered, i.e. — I have to stay up hours at night trying to move money from one bank, costing $### some times and she keeps springing (new loans) on me… Two times last week I had to be up to 6AM to avoid missing a payment, bouncing a check, (one bank doesn’t open until 3AM our time).
The bigger concern is it is pilfering, and it is not respecting her husband’s position, requests or money. It is “pilfering,” which does not have a good biblical precedent (Judas used to pilfer), and out to be avoided at all costs, Ex 20, Prov 30, but rather John Baptist, Jesus, Paul, James, Peter all enjoin “thankfulness,” “contentment” and “honesty.”
Please pray for our home group leaders — one hurt his foot and was questioning having the “biblical marriage” home group — I offered to get a cab, help him down stairs, into vehicle, out of vehicle and assist with even lowering a stretcher through the roof (if needed)… He’s under attack — he and his wife have been praying for her also… Please pray he is strengthened, healed empowered to lead, pray, intercede and teach. Authority over demons for us both and his leader. God’s order.
My wife has been gone 6 days now with my son at her mother’s — there is only one sister in her family who is hones and godly — she admits she is stubborn, immature, childish, unteachable and in “gross error."
I ask all the curses and demons be broken off her life, "for stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry, and rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft” Samuel told Saul, 1 Sam 15…
I ask for a humble and quiet spirit like Peter mentions regarding Sarah in 1 Pet 3 and more love for her, Eph 5, and, yes, respect not for me — but for the position of authority as ordained by God. Believe me I do not “Lord it over her or my son — merely ask she put at least a seatbelt on since she refuses a car seat, tell me what she needs, not take it and then make me do “surprise banking miracles for 6-9 hrs, literally, between 9PM and 6AM my time (Have a bank on on 50th state).
Please take authority over the devil with me, Eph 6:10-11, 12; James 4:7, 1 Peter 5:8-9. Let’s resist him as the church. I was tempted to look at illicit stuff last night first time in 5 months but listened to the Harmony of The Gospels on Youversion Bible App, prayed, and realized I hadn’t slept in 21 hrs before the “sudden and vehement temptation” struck. Clearly the devil. Thank God for the way of escape, 1 Cor 10:13…
It isn’t good for man to be alone, Gen 2:18, especially here as an American, and we should only separate when mutually agreed upon, and for the purpose of prayer and fasting, and come back together soon lest we be tempted, see 1 Cor 7:5. Grant me more time in prayer, the Word, and fruit, gifts and power. Jesus didn’t confront Judas, just let him fulfill prophecy and go to hell, better to have not been born He says…
Also, when He was angry, grieved at their hard hearts, Mk 3:15 — he does a miracle… I want to be like that… Mk 3:16...
Thank you in Jesus’ Name
"Do not deprive each other, except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control,” 1 Cor 7:5.
Original Prayer Request
Need to prove home group leaders pattern of stealing, outrageous squandering money, spending, foolish investments, and ongoingly incurring debt. Had the opportunity to do so by screen-shoting email transactions — my fears are confirmed despite denials, it's even worse -- stole and spent TWO (2) year's worth of son’s college fund (squandered 20% of my life savings in 6 months while I was paying for rent, internet, electric and while she was making income… Also was overpaying (both the rent and internet were less than what she was telling me 😆) Also acquired several more large and small loans (which I am forced to pay).
I live/teach debt-free living+generosity, so aqainst my wishes, instructions and expressed will... She also invalidates my instructions to my son and contradicts them even -- has not been attending home group as promised before I returned to Philippines from The States. Help me forgive myself and her -- bring lasting change to us both by washing us with the word of truth and humility, Jn 17:17, Eph 5:26...
The borrowing is ongoing, and we've maxed out our monthly budget plus 20-30%. We’re talking a SERIOUS need of counseling and repentance... So far has admitted nothing, and lied to home group leader and wife -- but NOW we can put that to bed and get to the real issues -- Need for salvation -- repentance from greed, love of money, stealing -- breaking the commands of God and Natural Order to enter the Celestial City, "Outside are the dogs, and the sorcerers, and the sexually immoral, and the murderers, and the idolaters, and everyone loving and practicing falsehood," Rev 22:15...
Father, I have her best interest in mind -- and that of my son (to have a godly dad and mom with a biblical worldview and orderly education and real love) -- So that means she needs to A) Admit the truth B) Believe in Christ's Life, Death, Resurection, Ascention and Sending Holy Spirit to comlete the work, C) Confess her sins and be saved by grace through real, obedient faith in Jesus Christ -- BUT I cannot do what only You can: open her eyes... I do not want to be The Holy Spirit, nor can I do what You can, but would like to save her, and ask You to convict her of righteousness, sin and eternal judgement, John 16:18, Heb 6:1-2, 3. Deliver her from lying, Rev 22:14-15, thefts, Rev 9:21, her cunning craftiness and deceitful scheming, Eph 4:14 -- It's not about the money -- "what matters is keeping the commandments of God,"1 Cor 7:19. Thank you for compassionate prayers of faith for this humbling and trying situation, in Jesus' Name.